If you are unhappy, make the decision to change it.

But, be warned, anywhere but here won’t land you where you want.

And, just saying it, or screaming it, or secretly hoping for it, won’t work.

You must decide, and then do.

But before you do, you must become.

Lost yet?

Well, let’s simplify it.

1. You have to want -it- bad enough. And must define -it-. Not in terms of what you don’t want, but seriously demand what you want. This isn’t for squirmy, best-wishing, flip-flopping nae-sayers. This is for REALLY FED UP people to make their lives better. So, get out of your comfort zone, stray from “normal” and even respectful, and get real. What is it that you DO want. — If you got it, good. You’re leaps and bounds ahead of most.

2. Now, become it. — A quiet people-pleaser is going to have a hard time becoming a performer or speaker. So, if you are timid, feel undeserving, or have other self-limiting beliefs, LET THEM GO! Success is hard with a train full of baggage. Let bygones be bygones, forgive yourself, and MOVE ON! Become who you dream of being. And it’s not about the degree, the job, or any other credentials. It’s you believing in yourself enough to follow your intention.

3. Make a plan. — If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. What do you need first? What contacts can you ask questions? What can you learn? – This is NOT about selling yourself, following on someone’s suit tails, or getting yourself into a job. This is about EXPLORATION. Ask questions and then listen. And get good at remembering names and what people value so you can have REAL relationships while you learn your way.

That’s it. Easy peasy!!! ❤️❤️